Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Communication is key: what you say and how you say it!


Misunderstandings happen all the time between the partners. So far it's one of the issues that can be easily avoided! Everything you need to know how to communicate effectively. Here are some tips on how to become better at it and, in turn, become a better partner:


1. choose the appropriate time and place to talk, when you have all the time and prepare a special sector. If only you had an argument, make sure it allows you time to cool down and think about this issue. Try to communicate effectively while still angry usually a bad idea and not try to solve the issue through texting!


2. first seek to understand, and only then to be understood. Try to put yourself in their shoes for a different perspective. Be open and try to see the situation the way you see.


3. be aware of how you say things. The tone is very crucial. Use "I" statements like, "I felt sad when I ..."


4. think of your partner as someone who is very sensitive. Even though they may not appear in outside, and your partner have emotions! Always be kind with your words, respectful, polite.


5. don't make assumptions. You're not a mind reader! So ask your partner how you feel the person if you are unsure.


6. avoid control result. Learn to be able to make concessions on an equal footing, with respect for the wishes and values of each other. WINS possible!


7. stay positive! Misunderstandings happen for everyone. Usually little issues that can be resolved. Not blow minor issues out of proportion but address them if they bother you because they usually lead to something bigger.


Remember, you and your partner team. If you keep these tips in mind when connecting, you will be able to overcome any challenges together and come out with a closer bond and love and understanding more.


Do you have further suggestions to maintain romantic trip in the training course? Share them with us in the comments section!

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